Shaun rang me last night (Friday) to say he didn't think he would survive the weekend. So cancelled my plans and took Rohan and Jay down to see him... He was not conscious. His mum and sister and wife were there too. Hilary (wife) seemed to think he knew we were there, but I am not so sure. Anyway, his suffering is over, so peace for him.
I think I was more upset for my boys. As I may have told you they don't really talk to each other, but they did hug when we left today. Shaun had arrived not long after we did. He stayed till his father died, which was good. I don't think Ro would have handled it. But he is glad he got to say goodbye.
Onto happier things..............Liam is here overnight. He is so good. He didn't cry when he left his mum, maybe because Jay and Ro were with me when I picked him up. Came inside and wandered around playing with the toys, good as gold. Ate his tea.............no fuss. Had his bath
Didn't quite come out as didn't want to wake him with the flash.
Having trouble posting so will try again later.
2 comments:
So sorry to hear about your ex. But as you said, he is now without any pain. Hard for the boys to see their dad to die, but important that they had the chance to say goodbye. And hard for a mother to see her boys suffering, as well. Not an easy task for you either. How are you holding up? Are the boys keeping in touch with you with the situation though they don't discuss with eachother much? Would be good for you to go through the sorrow together, as a family.
But Liam seems to be a really lovely boy! And SO cute! <3 <3 <3
Loads of hugs and kisses! Take care!
Thank you. Yes, I am being kept informed.
Liam was soooo good. Unfortunately his mum picked him up about 9.30am and as he only woke up about 8am. didn't get much time with him.
Have tried posting the video taken in the bath but it wont load. Tried the desktop and laptop but wont load on either.
Will try again tomorrow.
Didn't get much done with weekend, as after Liam went home the weather turned lousy so just did the ironing and had a nana nap.
Spent a lot of time telling people as well.
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